Sometimes when some ppl keep asking your stuff, even you tried to make your answer "round smooth" and yet protected own privacy, but they still keep asking like a detective to dig your privacy, they mentioned this is to "concern" you, they said they ask because they care you and concern you as a good friend.
They know you are not welling to tell, they know you are not feeling good to answer, but they are still asking and keep asking even you had tried to give an answer that good to each other (which they can get the rough answer yet not reveal your privacy). They concern about your privacy but not concern about your feeling.
Is he/she concern about you or only to fulfill their own curiosity? this anwser only they know, but I believe you can feel it as you have sense.
In fact, the question that asked is not really a "privacy" ... just the way they asked make me not feeling well and not willing to tell......
Respectation - this is something missing in their mind.
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you dont have/need to tell them everything if you dont want to. can cuba filter filter a bit mar. or just keep quiet/change the subject, then hopefully they get the idea already. force them to respect you. hehehe :D
hi nalini,
i have used these 3 methods you mentioned - "quiet, change topic, filter", but useless, they still keep asking until they get what they want, because they concern me.
time to ignore them? ;) respect has to be 2-way. disrespect can be the same. :P
just tell them directly you don want answer to that question. I guess it pretty straight forward and i don't think they will continue "concern" you
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